Interruptions are not rude.

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samiul123
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Interruptions are not rude.

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This appreciative attitude also makes it a little easier to interrupt other people. That was perhaps the most difficult thing for me: interrupting someone in the middle of speaking. Online, many of the non-verbal signals that you have in live events are simply missing. But if there are only 30 minutes and everyone wants to say something, then the appreciation of other people's time alone means that you sometimes have to slow someone down. You can - and must! - practice this.

Free does not mean lower quality standards.
With this offer I actually violated my own "free principle", which states, among other things, that you only give away what can be freely shared - for example, knowledge in articles or videos. The indivisible, your own time, on the other hand, must always be subject to payment. But: This refers to the professional offer. Voluntary work and the like are also unpaid and still have a right to do so.

That's why it was OK for me to offer the morning round for a limited period of time. But that's exactly why I held back on my own technical input. It didn't reduce the effort significantly, but it did at least create a clear internal boundary for me. Because what's really valuable is the time and attention of the participants. You can't run an offer like this half-heartedly, regardless of whether it's paid for or not, but always with full quality standards.

The essential is largely invisible to the general public.
Turning on the computer in the video studio for half an hour every forex data morning and moderating an online meeting: sounds like relatively little work. Anyone who starts community building like this will quickly experience a nasty surprise. Because a large part of the work is done in secret, in planning, brainstorming, preparation and follow-up; but above all in direct messages: because many questions and concerns come directly. There are very confidential, often moving personal messages. But there are also very simple questions about functions that a simple Google search could also answer.

Here, too, I learned that people are very different. There is no point in getting upset about thoughtlessness when the person in question does not have free attention in a stressful situation and is therefore looking for support in this way. That is why the most important things do not happen in a space that is visible to everyone. This insight applies not only to community building, but to all activities in social networks.

Conclusion: Expect nothing and you will get a lot back.
The biggest mistake you could make would be to make such an offer with ulterior motives, with certain expectations. Gratitude, for example, is something you cannot demand. You also cannot expect a certain attitude or appreciation. You should not project your own view onto others. That is why it is so important for your own satisfaction to be clear about your own motivations. Otherwise, disappointment is inevitable.

Without any expectations, however, it was a very unique experience for me too. I received so much gratitude, positive feedback and even responses that surprised me. You can see from this post how much I have learned.
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