RIA Novosti’s article discusses what to do if you receive a gift for New Year that you don’t need.
What gifts can cause an unwanted reaction
A gift "for show". A person simply ran into the nearest store and bought a set of shower gel and shampoo, without spending a minute thinking about what the recipient might like. Such a present can cause a feeling of resentment and "a slap in the face".
A gift with a hint. This type of gift assumes that the recipient should change something about themselves at the discretion of the giver. For example, you are given anti-dandruff shampoo, deodorant, a gym membership or a consultation with a stylist. All this hints that you do not take good care of yourself and do not look good. Poking others with their "shortcomings" (sometimes completely unfounded) is not the best idea.
Too expensive a gift. Agree, there is no joy when you give, for example, an inexpensive tea set, and you get a laptop. A feeling of guilt appears and as if you are now obligated to the person.
A handmade gift. Of course, if a seven-year-old child makes kuwait mobile database you a craft out of plasticine, it will be quite cute and you will most likely be genuinely happy. But if your aunt decides to give you an unsightly clay flower pot that does not fit into your interior, then you are unlikely to be happy.
Souvenirs. As a rule, for the New Year people like to give all sorts of figurines, piggy banks, photo frames and other little things with an animal symbol of the coming year. Yes, someone will find these things cute, but usually they only clutter up the space and spoil the appearance of the room.
A burdensome gift. This type of gift includes any pets (a kitten, fish, etc., which need to be looked after), construction sets, paint-by-numbers, and the like – something that needs to be assembled.
A gift that didn't suit. This could include perfume (everyone has different preferences), cosmetics (the reason is the same), clothes, something for the interior, etc.
How to React to a Gift You Didn't Like
If a person close (or not so close) to you gave you something that you didn’t really like or that you consider useless for yourself, it’s still important to show the giver that you are happy with the gift. After all, a gift is, first and foremost, attention, and it’s not always easy to guess the right gift. If you haven’t completed acting classes and can’t portray genuine joy on your face when you see a gift, follow these instructions:
Thank for the gift. It is worth doing because any gift deserves words of gratitude.
Think about the fact that the person took the time to try to please you - found a gift, bought it, wrapped it.
Assess the intention of the giver. When choosing a gift for you, the person was guided by his own thoughts and considerations, trying to please you.
Ask questions. Ask the giver why they chose the gift they gave you; where they bought it; if they have the same thing at home; how to use it. This will shift the focus from you to the giver and you will be able to avoid an awkward situation related to your reaction to the gift.
Lie. If you don't mind a little lie, then when you receive an unwanted gift, lie that you are happy to receive it. A little lie will help you avoid hurting someone's feelings. However, be careful not to overdo it.